I grew up in a house with a lot of music, very loud music. My mother takes a deep amount of pride in the fact that I knew all the words to Sgt. Pepper before my third birthday. I used to ride Dobin, my rocking horse, to Van Halen’s 1984. I was forced, forced I tell you, to dance like a maniac every Christmas to Feliz Navidad; some people go to church, we worshiped at the alter of Jose Feliciano. The vibrations of the music rocked picture frames off the walls on the regular. Once, a vase sitting on top of the stereo shattered from the shear force of the amplifier pushing out Stevie Ray Vaughn at 11. This is why my iPod is always on full blast; I was raised this way. It is in my blood. Also, there may be some lingering hearing damage.
My parent’s did their best to school us in Classic Rock. I took much more a shine to it than my brother, singing along to Roger Waters and Deep Purple with my parents. As a result, when they scored some pretty sweet seats to the Allman Brothers when I was 15, I went with them. I sat with them for 3 hours, bopping along to the music, breathing deep as a contact high slowly set in. It was fun, albeit a bit untraditional…kind of like my whole childhood.
Now, the one thing that has always irked me about this is how my parents will scream up and down they they hate country music, but they adore the Allman Brothers, Lynyrd Skynyrd and Little Feat. Some may argue–they certainly have–that it is Southern Rock. That is just another word for country. These bands are comprised of Jim Beam drinking, Marlboro smoking, Mama lovin’ rednecks. For the love of God, the Allman Brothers named an album after peaches and Gregg Allman’s son is named Elijah; if that ain’t country, I don’t know what is.
What’s so wrong with loving peaches and bourbon and all the fun that comes with it? Nothing, I say. This spice rubbed flank steak with peach bourbon sauce was pretty damn delicious, proving the inherent excellence of the ingredients. Of course, it doesn’t hurt that the spices on the steak are perfectly balanced, sweet with somplexity from the coriander, dry mustard, and cumin. The sauce is the star, though; tangy and spicy, it dresses the steak perfectly. Also, it is steak! And healthy!
And, maybe, a little bit country…
Spice Rubbed Steak with Bourbon Peach Sauce
From Cooking Light
* Sauce:
* 1 teaspoon vegetable oil
* 3/4 cup chopped Vidalia or other sweet onion
* 2 garlic cloves, minced
* 1 1/2 cups peach nectar
* 3 tablespoons brown sugar
* 2 tablespoons cider vinegar
* 3 tablespoons bourbon
* 2 tablespoons ketchup
* 1 1/2 teaspoons Worcestershire sauce
* 1/2 teaspoon crushed red pepper
* 1 tablespoon fresh lime juice
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Steak:
* 1 tablespoon brown sugar
* 1 1/4 teaspoons garlic powder
* 1 1/4 teaspoons ground cumin
* 1 teaspoon salt
* 1 teaspoon ground coriander
* 1 teaspoon paprika
* 3/4 teaspoon dry mustard
* 3/4 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
* 2 (1-pound) flank steaks, trimmed
* Cooking spray
Preparation
To prepare sauce, heat oil in a medium saucepan over medium-high heat. Add onion and garlic; saute 5 minutes or until tender. Add nectar, 3 tablespoons sugar, and vinegar. Bring to a boil; cook until reduced to 1 cup (about 15 minutes). Add bourbon, ketchup, Worcestershire, and red pepper; cook over medium heat 2 minutes, stirring occasionally. Remove from heat, and stir in the lime juice. Cool slightly. Pour the sauce into a blender, and process until smooth.
Prepare grill.
To prepare steak, combine 1 tablespoon sugar and next 7 ingredients (1 tablespoon sugar through black pepper); rub over both sides of steak. Place steak on grill rack coated with cooking spray; grill 7 minutes on each side or until desired degree of doneness. Cut steak diagonally across grain into thin slices. Serve with sauce.

9:03 am on September 18th, 2008
I’m in your parents’ camp. Southern rock just isn’t country. You don’t have that awful, and I mean AWFUL, twang, the guitar riffs are much different, and the lyrics are incredibly better and significantly cooler.
Sorry…I hate country…hate it, but something tells me I’m going to love the steak.
thoughts! You are supposed to be on my side! Traitor.
I think you will love it. Good luck.
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9:24 am on September 18th, 2008
I love old school and alt-country, but that Faith Hill pop country pap makes me die inside. It’s all twang and no soul. Give me Whiskeytown or give me death!
OK, I agree with Shania and Faith and all that. But “Fancy” by Reba! I kinda love that song…just saying.
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9:29 am on September 18th, 2008
I’ve heard people say that the Eagles are fundamentally a country group. I don’t quite see it. Well, maybe a little bit on “Take it Easy,” but still. I’m with thoughts on the twang thing. There is a certain texture to country music that is umistakable (Big & Rich’s “Life is a Highway,” anyone?) and one that makes me cringe, just a little.
In a way that tasty steak absolutely will not.
I am not saying I am a huge country fan, but I can get behind some. I would argue “Life in the Fast Lane” is country as well re Eagles.
Oh, and of course “Deperado”.
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9:40 am on September 18th, 2008
I hated country. For all of the 11 years I lived in NC, I couldn’t stand it. But then I found myself living in Indianapolis in ‘99 without a decent classic rock station and nothing but boy bands and girl pop on the rest of the so-called rock stations.
Then, one day, as I was driving to visit my brother (What’s the best thing about Indy? It’s three hours from Chicago) I hit the scan button. Lo and behold there was Toby Keith singing How Do You Like Me Now and the transformation was done as quick as teenage boy getting his first blow job.
That in and of itself could be a country song.
Are their country songs about blow jobs? Now there is a song I would like to hear.
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9:46 am on September 18th, 2008
I think I am sexually aroused by the sight of that steak. Note to self: flank steak this weekend to go with all the damn whiskey consumption motivated by market conditions.
Sons of diplomats are expected to have a proper upbringing so I wasn’t exposed to country or southern rock growing up.
Sexually aroused? Nice. My job here is done.
What isn’t proper about Southern Rock? It is KLASSY.
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9:50 am on September 18th, 2008
DF – I was the WIFE of a diplomat, and I got my Southern rock on pretty often. I guess Foreign Service life has gotten downright trashy – which may have been partially my fault. Oops.
Leave it to Shannon to take it down a level.
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9:54 am on September 18th, 2008
As a serious country opponent, it may surprise you that I don’t consider southern rock to be country. There is some serious country influence in there (uh, hello Sweet Home Alabama) but I separate the two genres with a very fine line.
I don’t think I even have to comment on the steak. You should already know how I feel about it, and it’s definitely my kind of color.
It does not surprise me. Nothing surprises me anymore.
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10:13 am on September 18th, 2008
I’m so ashamed to admit it as a self-proclaimed Masshole… but I LOVE country music. All of it. The twangy, the redneck, the kind that REQUIRES you be drinking Schlitz while you listen to it…
I feel so dirty right now.
Take a shower, you dirty bird.
MMM, Schlitz.
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10:24 am on September 18th, 2008
If you’ll be my dixie chicken, I’ll be your tennessee lamb, baby!!!!!!!!!!! =-)
The steak looks divine. Definitely adding it to my list of recipes to try.
We can walk together, darling, in DIIIXIE LAAAANNNNDDD.
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10:46 am on September 18th, 2008
If there can be a country song about selling a girl into prostution, the aformentioned “Fancy,” I don’t see why there can’t be country songs about oral sex. Big and Rich’s “Save a Horse, Ride a Cowboy” comes immediatly to mind.
Well, um, that song is not about the oral arts, friend.
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10:52 am on September 18th, 2008
That steak is cooked perfectly. Medium rare, right?
Now I need to eat steak for lunch.
Medium rare indeed. You have to let it rest for about 5 minutes before cutting so all the juices don’t run out.
Don’t forget the egg on your steak.
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10:56 am on September 18th, 2008
I am pretty sure that Don scared the shit out of me back then (as was probably his aim – I was dating the girl he obviously cared more for than anyone), but now, I wish that we had hung out more.
He is a cool dude, but a scary one.
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11:01 am on September 18th, 2008
Lemmonex: She’s a little bit country…
and a little bit rock & roll!
I am more rock and roll, but have some country in me. For instance, my love of bourbon.
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11:34 am on September 18th, 2008
Traitor?!?!?! That’s a bit harsh. Either way, your story has inspired me to get my kids, well when I have kids, into rock music at an early age.
And I even found a webpage that sells cds of rock songs converted into kid friendly versions. Imagine opening up a music box and hearing the music box version of Enter Sandman. You’ll either love it or want to rip your eardrums out.
http://www.rockabyebabymusic.com/web/page.asp
Aw, I am kidding! You know I am a kidder.
Also, I am a true believer in the real thing. When I hear those songs of kids singing “Hey Jude” I cringe. Play the damn Beatles!
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11:49 am on September 18th, 2008
People who “separate the two genres with a very fine line,” in my humble opinion, are people who actually LIKE country but are too chicken to admit it. Therefore, they get the best of both worlds–they get the wonderfully country-influenced ditties of classic Southern rock, AND they get to act all superior-like and proclaim that they hate something trendy (which current country music has certainly become, for better or for worse). Sorry, I-66.
Also, I feel like “country” can’t even be just one genre anymore. I mean, Faith Hill and the like are going the direction of “country-pop” (which I don’t love), but Charlie Daniels? Marshall Tucker? Georgia Satellites? ZZ Top? Skynard? Willie Nelson? Johnny Cash? Patsy Cline? Loretta Lynn? Waylon Jennings? ELVIS, FOR CRYING OUT LOUD?!?! No way can you say you hate them just because you ostensibly hate the crap that Nashville is currently dishing out.
Ahem. I don’t have strong feelings about this stuff, I promise!
And Lem, it might not be about BJs, but one of my favorite “scandalous” country songs is “Harper Valley PTA,” sung by Jeannie C. Riley. Give it a listen.
Preach it, bettyjoan! I definitely agree. People do like it; it is such a large catagory.
And I just read the lyrics to Harper Valley PTA…love it.
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11:54 am on September 18th, 2008
Oh, and yay, steak!
I am totally on board with the peach-bourbon sauce.
Ha, who doesn’t love steak? Well, except the vegetarians…
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11:57 am on September 18th, 2008
When I was a kid, my mom’s car radio dial was always set to KICK 96 FM in Houston. I loved it, and had that radio station’s bumper-stickers plastered to my TrapperKeeper. I still love the stuff from that 70s/early 80s period in country music, especially Bocephus. I have to admit to a stray goose bump or two when I hear “Whiskey Bent and Hell Bound” or “Family Tradition.” Hank Williams Jr. … such a great role model for an eight-year-old donchathink?
But ya turned out lovely.
True story: I was listening to George Michael’s “I Want Your Sex” as a kid and asked MamaBear what that meant. She said, “Well, sex is another word for gender. So he wants to spend time with some ladies, is all”. Smart woman.
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12:09 pm on September 18th, 2008
The trouble is, when people think “country” they think “that damned twangy steel slide guitar thingy” and it puts ‘em off. Puts me off, anyway. But the whole genre is actually (as has been pointed out) pretty huge. Not jazz huge, but really broad anyway. Personally, I like where it overlaps rock. Rockabilly in particular is good stuff.
But you know, even the more drawl-ridden sorts of country are pretty entertaining. No one has better song titles, and that’s a fact. Well, except maybe for Barenaked Ladies and They Might Be Giants, but those beloved weirdos are derangedly creative. Anyway. Good stuff out there.
I hate TMBG with the fire of a thousand suns. It is seriously unparalleled. I cannot think of a band I hate more.
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12:18 pm on September 18th, 2008
Musically you had a great upbringing (of course that’s just my humble opinion). You were also exposed to some really great big band stuff too. And what’s not to love about the totally rockin’ version of Feliz Navidad that we have? It’s rock and it ’s soul and it’s Christmas…what’s not to love???? And the whole George Michael thing, I had forgotten about that, thanks for bringing back a great memory and one of smarter moments back to light.
The steak looks totally great, it’s a recipe I can actually get behind.
My memory scares me sometimes, Mom.
You made me dance to Christmas music and I hate Christmas.
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12:22 pm on September 18th, 2008
LOL Yeah, they do have that effect now and then. My brother (a goth who loves vintage rockabilly and intellectual indy) adores them. I’ve never really gotten it, but there is some of their stuff that clicks for me.
Regardless, their titles are often country-quality.
Oh, and ZZ Top? Not country. Southern-born, arguably southern-styled (a bit), but not country.
I have to check out some titles, I guess. I hear the name TMBG and then I starting screaming inside. Glad you like it though…
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12:29 pm on September 18th, 2008
Just like you’re never sure if Johnny’s wife survived childbirth in “Don’t Take the Girl,” I believe there’s enough wiggle room in the line, “And I was going, just about as far as she’d let me go” to include, as you so delicately put them, the oral arts.
Could that have been a class in junior high, like language arts?
I am very delicate. I don’t think that line included the oral arts.
For instance, as far as I let anyone go is hand holding.
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1:29 pm on September 18th, 2008
I can’t believe you jumped back into this morass. Well, actually I can believe it. You know my opinion on this one.
Fact: the wife is named after a Skynyrd backup singer, who was a distant cousin. Fact: the wife considers Skynyrd to be a southern rock/old-school country band. Her authority on this subject is without parallel, so our side wins.
And please, anyone citing Faith Hill or Shania Twain as country singers in an argument has no credibility on the topic. Lorretta Lynn and Dolly Parton are country singers. Hill and Twain are Nashville pop stars.
I get you, but I think Hill and Twain were being used more as an example.
And our side always wins, SD.
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1:32 pm on September 18th, 2008
That picture should be one of the illustrations for those “meat is murder. . .tasty tasty murder” shirts.
It was pretty darn perfect. I enjoy me some bloody meat.
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1:55 pm on September 18th, 2008
That steak looks great, btw. I’m starving now.
Any plans for an eggplant recipe in the near future? I’ve been getting my neigbors’ CSA box while they’re out of town, and I got an eggplant this week. I’ve never eaten one, because I’m a carnivore at heart. What should I do with it?
Thanks.
I did a baba recipe a few weeks back, if you recall. Also, eggplant parm?
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2:56 pm on September 18th, 2008
Whether it’s Feliz Navidad by Jose Feliciano or by Boney M, you can’t go wrong with that song at Christmas time. Growing up though and even to this day I’d say that the Kenny Rogers and Donlly Parton Christmas Album will always be my favorite.
Christmas music just ain’t my thing. I have been known to ban it.
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3:34 pm on September 18th, 2008
I grew up with mostly crap music growing up, which meant that I had to learn all about music on my own, which wasn’t all that bad. How I became a musician out of all of that is beyond me though
Country music is a lot more fun to play than to listen to…. but before I go too far let me just say that Country music is definitely different than southern rock. Let’s make a quick distinction – there’s Country “Pop” and Country “Music” – country pop is all the shit that’s out there right now for the most part. Allman Brothers — well they could be considered country music, but a higher power might strike you down if you tried to call their music pop…. but dixie chicks? Shania Twain? Even Tim Mcgraw — just not the deep down dirty rock that the allman or lynyrd or the like do. It’s like the difference between led zeppelin and genesis…..
Oh, it is definitely layered music with different sub genres, I agree. Dixies are NOT the same as Skynyrd.
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5:14 pm on September 18th, 2008
I love it that you love MY music! But right now that steak is making me SO HUNGRY!
We should rock out at the picnic! I think the Rambling Man and pumpkin pie are a natural pair.
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8:10 pm on September 18th, 2008
Could we call rock bordering on country (or vice versa).. folk? Stay with me. Indigo Girls, Crosby Stills Nash & Young… telling a story with some music in the background.
Also I am highly impressed by the young knowledge of St. Pepper. Yellow Submarine was my favorite movie as a child.
I love Yellow Submarine, but I am more partial to Hard Days Night.
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8:56 pm on September 18th, 2008
I also have my parents to thank for my love of – and appreciation for – music. Making dinner, cleaning, doing stuff around the house – there was always music on. Clapton, Paul Simon, Rolling Stones, you name it. And to this day, if I’m in the kitchen, I need to have music playing. It just goes together.
Oh, Eric Clapton. I remember when I truly thought some man would sing Wonderful Tonight to me. Silly girl.
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9:25 pm on September 18th, 2008
Ah you kids. My generation did not grow up listening to our parents music, we had our own. Now kids know both the oldies and the current stuff, because basically their stuff is our stuff aside from rap. It never ceases to amaze me the popularity of the old guys/girls with the current generation. Wonder if it will be the same with your kids.
As for the flank steak, my mother was not much of a cook but she did make a wonderful flank steak which is probably why it was always my choice for my birthday dinner. The peach sauce sounds a nice touch if in a small dose. No ginger in there is there?
I cannot even think what my kids will listen to because it is impossible for me to imagine myself with kids.
No ginger…I had you in mind, jman.
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9:30 pm on September 18th, 2008
Hi….thanks…Maybe that’s how I ended up in the South….however just for the record The album named after a Peach was actually about getting RUN OVER by a Peach truck, AND a Watermelon truck while ridin a Harley…..
….Oh…… I see…….
Thanks again
Oh, the lies our parents tell us..NOT TRUE, dear father. Check it out.
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12:15 am on September 19th, 2008
C’mon You know there’s nothing more fun than an urban legend…….and besides Duane told me in a dream…..next you’ll tell me Gregg was married to ….I don’t know….Cher or something…….. come ON
See, but sometimes you tell the truth! This is why I never know fact from fiction…my parents screwed with me my whole life.
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1:47 am on September 19th, 2008
I’m with SD on this one. Shania Twain and that other bimbo are not country. (I used to hate country too, until I realized all that CMT crap wasn’t country at all.) Elvis Presley, on the other hand, is country to the core. Skynrd may rock, but if it’s not country, it’s sure as hell got country roots.
#8 LiLi – Your response is natural, because Massachusetts is populated almost entirely by dirty hicks. People from South Carolina find Mass a bit backwards.
Oh, and “if that ain’t country, I don’t know what is.” – My dear, the line is, “If that ain’t country, I’ll kiss your ass.”
Elvis is mist definitely country.
I stand corrected. Seems I have some ass kissing to do.
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8:03 am on September 19th, 2008
Late in commenting on this one, but I must say, Lemmonex, you have absolutely mastered the art of “transition” in your blog posts. Such a subtle flow from waxing on life to waxing on food and recipes.
Such fun to read.
Thanks, Hannah. Sometimes I worry it is a stretch, but most of the time it works. Glad you are enjoying.
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8:53 am on September 19th, 2008
Mmmmm….
Steak, Bourbon, peaches and southern rock. How many shades of awesome can you fit into one post?
Great way to celebrate Bourbon Heritage Month, Lemmonex! Any particular Bourbon you’d recommend for the sauce? I can definitely think of one or two that I would reach for before others.
Welcome, capital spice.
Makers Mark! Everyone loves Makers.
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9:29 am on September 19th, 2008
Lemmonex, I will never get the devotion to “Wonderful Tonight.” To me, it’s about a guy whose girlfriend takes forever to get ready for a party, so he passive-aggressively gets hammered so she has to drive him home.
What did I know? I was 13. I also pined away for Jeff Jillson when I was 13.
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9:33 am on September 19th, 2008
Lem-
Your post prompted a flashback for me. You were not the first young girl Don insisted adapt to his music. I was encouraged (tormented?) to memorize the four members of Kiss by name and make-up at the age of 6. I got him back with a love of 80’s music.
There never was much of a choice with these things, was there?
Huey Lewis what?
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9:43 am on September 19th, 2008
Aunt Lifesaver…For the record i believe it was Grand Funk Railroad….sorry about that
Family feud!!
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